Couples and Groups-Good, Bad, and Stop Blocking the Cam!

Steve · Joined: 08 Jan 2003

Two for the Price of One?

Everyone seems to think that more is always better, but when it comes to the webcam experience, is that always true? And while couples can be fun, where do you draw the line? Threesomes, orgies…just how many people on cam at once is too many (or is there ever such a thing as too many)?

Couples chat has a few nice points, I’ll give you that. You get twice as many people to give orders to, for one. If you’re really into being in total control of a situation, there’s nothing hotter than telling the guy how to pleasure his woman or instructing a lesbian to fuck her girlfriend hard with a dildo. It’s like being the director of your very own porn movie, and that’s a very powerful feelings.

A few guys I’ve talked to say that they like to imagine they’re the man when they watch couples cams. This never really works for me. In fact, I sometimes get distracted by the man because he’s doing something I’d never do. The last time I watched a couple on Cams.Com, for example, the guy kept pinching his own nipples. For whatever reason, every time he did it, it annoyed me. He should have been paying attention to the hot blonde he was with (like I was telling him to!) and not playing with himself.

That brings up another issue – sometimes, the couples get so into each other that they kind of forget you’re there watching. This has happened a few times to me. I say something to them or ask them to do something and they completely ignore me. In fact, this happened to me on iFrends the other night. While most couples know they’re working and will do their best to keep everyone happy, sometimes they get a little too caught up in their work.

A couple in free chat

Also, in my opinion, we’re there to mainly see the woman. Yeah, there’s a guy on camera, too, but we don’t really care about him. He’s just there to make the girl look good and moan with pleasure when we want her to. This means the focus should never be on him, and most of the time (thankfully), it seems like the couples realize this. That’s why the girl is almost always at the keyboard and in front of the camera while the guy hangs out behind her. Of course, the guy is going to get naked and be a part of the fun, and that’s fine – that’s what I’m paying for, in fact, and the reason I’m watching a couple and not a solo girl. If you don’t want to see that, you can always check out a lesbian couple.

While I’ve talked mainly about straight couples, you can find some nice lesbian couples around. Secretfriends is a good site for this, as are the special monthly chats over on FlirtForFree (if you have the money for them, of course). What can I say about lesbian couples that isn’t incredibly obvious? Here, I’ll agree: one girl is good, but two playing with each other is even better!

While couples are great, I’m not sure I’m such a big fan of threesomes and orgies on camera. I once watched a foursome on LiveJasmin, and while it was exciting, it was also really hard to see what was going on. There were just too many people on camera, and too many times all I could see was someone’s ass.

Threesomes, on the other hand, are a little better to watch since they usually seem more planned out. The girls (I usually go for two girls/one guy threesomes since it combines the fun of a straight couple with the hotness of lesbians) aren’t shy about playing with each other, and the guy is there to help them get off in ways that they can’t with toys. In my opinion, directing a threesome is even more fun than telling couples what to do.

The downside to threesomes is that I see the same ones on a lot of different sites and there aren’t as many threesomes online as couples or single girls. I’ve found good threesomes on EpicCams, CumTV, and Cams.com, but not every site has them. Secretfriends, 247Live, and Flirt4Free are all threesome-free.

Give me a nice couple every now and then and I’m happy. A threesome is fun, too, if everyone knows to keep out of the way of the camera. But when it comes to foursomes and orgies, I just don’t think it works. I once did a free chat with a group of six people, and I couldn’t even see them all on screen at once! Yeah, I’m sure that would be great if they were all in your bed, but trying to watch them on camera just doesn’t work for me.

kerbouchard · Joined: 12 Oct 2003 Location: Prague, Czech Republic

I fucking love couples chat. It’s about all I do anymore. I love watching these girls get pounded by guys and I like telling him where to touch her and what to do. It really is like directing my own porn movie, and it’s so hot. I haven’t done a chat with a threesome before, but I think that would be great too. Lesbian chats don’t really do it for me. I don’t know why, I just like seeing the girl get fucked hard by a real man, not a piece of plastic.

FUSIONSTAR · Joined: 15 Aug 2003

Ah man, I know just what you’re talking about with the groups! I hate it when I’m paying for something and all I can see is some guy’s butt while he’s eating out the chick. It’s like they don’t know where the freaking camera is or something! Have you ever done a couple chat where they have multiple cams set up? Man, that’s the best since you can change views when the move. They’re usually not even that much more expensive and some don’t cost any extra. That would probably make group privates a lot better, too.

ricbig · Joined: 07 Feb 2004

I haven't seen the multiple cam thing yet, man I gotta check that out.

I know what you mean about camera placement though. The few times I have dropped in for a two some or three some about seventy percent of the time I didn't have a clue what was going on between them