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Steve · Joined: 08 Jan 2003

Is Free Chat Worth My Time?

Some people approach webcam sites with one purpose and one purpose only: find a chick and take her private for naked fun time. But these people often miss an entire important aspect of the webcam experience, so if you’re a “go private in under two seconds” guy, take note here of what you’re missing.

First, the conversation. Yes, I know, I know, no one gets on LiveJasmin to talk, and there are no great philosophical debates on FlirtForFree. However, the girls and other guys in chat rooms can actually be fun to talk to. Sometimes, in fact, I’ll hop in a chat room just to talk with the girl and see how she’s doing. It doesn’t always have to be about her pleasuring herself or doing what you ask her to do.

Talking to the webcam girl leads to my next point: I find it much more fun and think much more of the girl if I get to know her first. I like to get to know her a bit and maybe even (yes, I’ll dare use that word) have some sort of relationship with her. No, I’m not talking about a romantic relationship, but a friendship. It’s nice to know that these are real girls. For me, that makes seeing them naked much more of an attraction and makes free chat worth every minute.

The girls at Secretfriends are a prime example of what happens when a guy gets to know his webcam girl. The girls on that site are incredibly popular, and many guys have their favorite SecretFriends chick. It’s not because they’re more talented or do anything extra (although they do occasionally do naked free chats, which is great!). It’s the fact that they engage the guys and talk with them. They’re funny and act like real people, not like they’re just doing a job.

I know a lot of people will disagree with me here (I mean, the point of webcam sites is the private show, I know), but I think there is something to free chat. At least, I enjoy the time I spend talking to the girls while they still have their clothes on.

psachs · Joined: 29 Sep 2003

Free chats can be fun sometimes, but only if the girl is into it. Some of them don’t really seem to want to talk. Then there are sites like PrivatFlirt where they all pretty much speak some other language….

BigDaddy216 · Joined: 13 Dec 2003

If I wanted to just talk with a girl, I’d instant message my girlfriend. When I’m on a webcam site, I want a show. I’m all about the private, and I don’t think I’m missing anything.

thsadmin · Joined: 02 Nov 2007

I am a chatter, there's so many reasons to chat :

A) You have to get to know the girl, find out how dirty she is, find out what she's going to do, likes and dislikes.

B) Make them feel comfortable, you want some trust and understanding, she will feel better and even offer you a better a show.

C) If you're a known user you always get better shows, the girls talk to you more and you wont get lost in the names in chat - the other blokes will get jealous.

These girls aren't hookers, you don't just do the deed and piss off, you've gotta talk and have fun, you'll be glad you did.